Side note for the men reading this. This doesn't apply to all of you. Just most.

So I finally decided that I would date, and see how it goes. Been on a few dates and yet my outlook on men still hasn't changed. WTF! I getting so tired of being screwed over, lied to, used, and just plain treated like shit!

So get this, guys asks me out. I'm like sure, this is nice. He knows cars/bikes, seems down to earth, mannered, sweet. Hell I'll give him a chance. Before the date I check out his myspace and notice he has "In relationship" under his name. Ask him, "Ur a player arn't you? Asking me out with, "In a relationship" on your myspace. Just so you know, your not getting laid tonight and if you are a player go elsewhere. I know how it feels on the recieving end and I won't put that on someone." His response is

"my page says in a relationship but i am single i put that stuff on there cuz i dont want alot of girls asking me if i want to go out but i would like to take you out sometime give me a call or text my num is 717 542 4912 its nick i also need you to do some work for me in a couple weeks painting a design i have on my bike and i may have alot of work for you in a couple months doin some more bike for my shop i am opening"

I stupid self says oh what the hell and meets up for him, still seems sweet as can be. Ask him while on the date again about the girl. same response as before.

Day after date, I check out the myspace page again and find a girl with pics of him and her together. I know at this point he's playing me (Should have known it before). Soooooo...I ask him about the girl again and this time bring up the comments that were under their pics "You two look so cute together, I'm happy for the both of you".

I get a text saying...

"She's a my best friend, I'll explain later"

This is the message I recieve on myspace later that night

"A friend want's his Harley fram painted. He wants it burgandy and wants the tank, fenders and oil tank cadi pearl white and some air brushing also not sure want but some and he also wans to have you paint his wifes car just airbrush some accents on it i will let you know more when i find out when he wants it"

WTF?!

Now Today his girl adds me to her myspace friends list. Sooooooo I added her and said

"Thanks for the add. How are you? You look like a really nice person & you and your man look so happy together. Anyhow I just wanted to drop you a line, and maybe make a new friend."

I get
"your welcome. i am fine. so far so good with him!"

then
"so how long have u known nick?"

I respond with...

I know this sounds odd, but I don't want to lie to you. You seem like a very nice person and i know how it feels to be screwed over. I met Nick around Oct 4th. He sent me a message on here asking about meeting up and going out. I didn't think much about it until I looked at his myspace and saw you. I asked him about him being a in a relationship and well the response I got was...

"
Oct 2, 2008 2:05 PM

my page says in a relationship but i am single i put that stuff on there cuz i dont want alot of girls asking me if i want to go out but i would like to take you out sometime give me a call or text my num is 717 542 4912 its nick i also need you to do some work for me in a couple weeks painting a design i have on my bike and i may have alot of work for you in a couple months doin some more bike for my shop i am opening"

I thought this was kind of fishy, but I fullishly still met up with him one night out in York about a week ago. He was sweet and all "I like you" & " I don't know why you are single" BS.

I know how it feels on the recieveing end of being cheated on/played. And I hate to see it happen to anyone else. You don't have to believe me, but I do still have the messages he sent me on here that I can forward you. He also texted me but I erased them off my phone, otherwise I'd send them to you as well.

I'm so, so sorry, you see like a great women and shouldn't be taken advantage of. I only hope I don't seem like a ass to you. I would want someone to tell me if I was in this situation sooo, well here I am


Once again, I'm sorry

Christina"


she resonds with
"semd me what ever u want"
and
"thank u for letting me know"


It just floors me how guys can do this to women and not feel bad about it. I've been cheated on...5 times now, for stupid shit. If you don't f*cking like me, don't f*cking date me! Quit wasting my god damn time!

I feel even worse now that I ruined this poor womans day by telling her this. But I felt that she should be told. I would want someone to tell me if I were her. She seemed cool about it as you see. But damn. The woman has two kids and has now been cheated on by the one she thought cared about her and the kids.

Guys, why?

That's all I want to know.

Why?



I know this was long but thanks for listening. And I convinced I'm gonna marry my Z and that's it!

See this is the fuckin shit i just went through with my ex bitch, pardon my language but every time i think about it it pisses me off so bad i start tearing up and here lately ive been actually loosing sleep over it, which pisses me off that much more. I can honestly say I know what your goin through, except that i was in a relationship and she was doin that to me. I just wish i had my Z back so i can have something to take my mind off of it for a while.

:clap: on the bust.

sorry your luck in that corner has sucked :-/

Sorry to hear that Christina... OooOooO! Can I call him and mess with him?

no you can't, as much as I don't like some people I don't do that sort of thing

Ouch,,did that right thing by telling her.better she find out now then later. i understand your frustration but not all guys cheat tho..lol.. there are just as many roguish women out there as men.

eh, I wasn't going to anyways... That is too much energy to do, and it wouldn't be worth it. It was just a thought. :\

dang, sounds like all the guys I've ever met!! Minus the being used for airbrushing!! What a retard. Did he think you would do it for free or something?? I'm glad you let the girl know. I was never told

Men suck

Christina, we seem to have the same luck with guys. My former ex cheated on me and told me via a text message the following day. He wasn't even man enough to tell me directly. He's a total scumbag and I hope he gets what he deserves. He thinks so highly of himself and it makes me want to vomit. And...ladies if anyone refers to themselves as a Dog that should be a clue. Loser!!!!! Anyway, I'm sorry this guy turned out to be such a creep, but hopefully he will get what he deserves!!!!!

I need to add something. I don't think all men suck!! Just 95% of the ones I meet do lol

Christina

I feel very bad that you just seem to be getting the runaround from assholes. I promise you that if you keep looking you will eventually fined someone who will treat you right. Hell you might not be looking and maybe they will just stumble across you. Either way keep your head up your eyes open and your other senses alert fate and karma work in funny ways.

Hey guys -- it seems you should date some of the guys on this site -- they all seem pretty cool & supportive -- maybe we have the other 5% on this site !

lol maybe clickdoc - i wouldnt be able to though since I kinda live too far away from most of u on the site!

Well i am an old happily married man -- but like i said most of these guys seem pretty cool -- that is why I like this site so much -- by the way Amy -- i just realized we have exactly the same wheels - good choice !

Alot of the Z guys on here are sweet, explains why most are married...lol

Oh well, eventually one will find me or vise versa